You may be away from your ex boyfriend, may be you are not in touch since many days. You are reading this article about how to get him back, this means you are still in love with him, and want him back in your life!
Do what your heart says, because your friends might be wrong
Your friends might be advising you to forget him and move on in life. It’s very easy for your friends to advise you to just forget him, but it might prove to be very difficult to forget someone like him. This is definitely not what you wish to hear from your friends.
You should not get de-motivated because of your mean friends. You should not forget him if you still believe that God has sent him for you, and he is the right person to spend your entire life with. If you want that ex boyfriend back in your life, you will have to plan and take steps accordingly. So, here are some tips which can prove helpful!
Your behavior after breakup
This is the most important stage. You might end up moving him further away from you, if you make any behavioral errors. You might be in trauma and shock because of breakup. This might make it difficult for you to control your behavior, so you might end up behaving in erratic manner. It is advisable to keep control on yourself, and avoid the kind of behavior which can mess-up the situation even more.
It has been observed that whenever girls are dumped by their boyfriends, girls become impatient, and even violent (in some cases). You might feel like sending text messages, checking his Facebook profile after every few minutes, or even try to follow him and go in front of him again and again.
You should control your feelings, as this kind of behavior is unattractive, and he might prefer to move away from you and distance himself even further.
You should not beg
Some girls even try to plead, beg in front of their ex boyfriends, and request them to come back in their life. This is like using guilt to convince him to come back; it might create a wrong impression about you in his mind. You should think twice before behaving like this, as your ex boyfriend might feel that you are dramatic and desperate. He might even feel afraid of you, as most of the times men cannot handle emotional reactions.
People who are independent, and can control their emotions are always successful in attracting others. You should act positively and control your emotions whenever you see him, this will definitely shock him and show him that you are strong. This can change his mind, and make him come back in your life.
Stay away from him and make him come back in your life
You must have heard William Shakespeare’s famous quote- “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”. Your ex boyfriend will not miss you after breakup if you keep on coming in front of him again and again, physically or virtually. If you wish your boyfriend to feel lonely and miss you, it is advisable to give him some space and chance to miss you for some time.
The most difficult part will be to keep yourself away from him. Your heart is broken, you are wounded, and wish to hear some kind words from your ex boyfriend.Still, it is very important for you to keep yourself away from him, as this will project you as an independent and mature individual whose life is full of interesting events. This will definitely attract him back to you and make him come back in your life.
Male pride can make him come back in your life
It is clear that men are ego centric, and it is their ego which makes them feel manly. Even after that breakup with you, your ex boyfriend is still waiting for you, his ego makes him think that you will change your mind and come back to him. This egoistic feeling often makes men feel miserable and sad after breakup.
No one can deny that women are far more emotional than men. Women offer love, care, warmth, and fortune to men. This world cannot survive without women.
So, it is important that you control your emotions, and somehow manage to show him that you have forgotten him and your life is normal. All that you need to do is just avoid talking to him, and ignore him. Once he realizes that you are not interested in talking to him, he will regret going away from your life, and will begin showing signs about how much he wants to come back in your life and love you ever after.
By- Nitten Gokhaley
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